Inspirational Skout
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I'd also like to share this other clip - it goes for about six minutes but boy, will it make you cry. It makes me so grateful for my bub and I think it is something that every mum (and dad) would so appreciate. Life is short, it is so important to value every day.
Pixel Art
There is no question that a digital camera and a cute kid (and, of your kid is THE cutest!) means that you have a thousand photos sitting around on USB sticks, hard drives or CDs. Even if you are one of those organised types who manages to print their photos, the next challenge is often how to display them.
One of the latest trends on the runways of late is pixel art...like these cute little dresses from UK designer Matthew Williamson (as worn here by actress, Thandie Newton).
So what better way to be on trend AND display all those beautiful images than by creating pixel artwork??
By: Amy Doak
Float Your Boat
How does it feel when you’re doing something you truly love?
Daddy Time
"Why don't you want to go to the cricket today?" "I miss my boy and my girl and want to stay home with them today."
This was the small conversation between my husband and I this morning. He had plans to go to watch the cricket today with a friend. At the last minute this morning, he cancelled them and I didn't understand why until I asked him. My husband LOVES the cricket. He has it on the television most of the day (when he wins that battle with our toddler!). It was even the reason we connected Foxtel - more cricket televised. But this morning he decided not to go because he really just wanted to spend time with his children, especially while he is on holidays from work. I felt warm inside to hear him say that, and loved watching him with my son on the front lawn giving golf swing lessons!

Photo courtesy of Mum/toddler/babe
Sometimes I feel like I don't encourage him enough in the time he spends with our two little ones, and feel like I probably nag him too much in the way he is with them rather than leave him and them be. The times I do leave him with our children what I usually find is a son covered head to toe in dirt/sand/food, the living room looking like a bomb site, no housework done, a son and daughter with food all over their clothes.....the list goes on. But do you know what I do find? Three smiling, happy faces. The part of me that gets anxious and stressed by seeing the mess around me and what (in my eyes) hasn't been done or done 'my way' often takes too much of a hold that I forget to look past all that and just appreciate the quality time being had by my children and their daddy. This time is so, so precious and I need to just let go of the controlling side of myself that just wants to see the mess gone and things done 'properly'. The mess can wait. And I don't want my husband to feel like the time that he does spend with our children is tarnished by my disapproval of the things that don't meet my standards, that in the grand scheme of things truly don't matter. I guess a lot of the time I become too task focused instead of family focused.
I also feel very blessed that my children have not only my husband but many other fantastic male figures in their lives and I don't want to take that for granted.
Now that my youngest is fifteen months old, I'm finding that I am getting more opportunity to leave them both with their daddy to get my own 'me' time. So this means more relinquishing control and allowing their daddy to be a daddy and to have fun connecting and growing his relationship with his children. I could probably learn a thing or two from their interactions too - about remembering to relax and just enjoy those silly moments with my children without worrying so much about all the dirt, germs and mess that could be involved!
By: Virginia Edwards


